August 28 @ 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

500Kr

Done being accessible by default

August 28 @ 6:00 pm – 9:00 pm

The Motherhole hosts this gathering.

It has three realms: Eros, Mother and Crone.

This is a Crone gathering.

Crone is not age.

It is not invisibility.

It is not decline.

Crone is the moment you stop negotiating your existence.

When your body is no longer a passage for life into this world.

Crone is ownership.

Theme of the gathering

There comes a point when something in you closes.

Not from bitterness.

Not from trauma.

From clarity.

You no longer want to be endlessly reachable.

Emotionally accommodating.

Sexually adaptable.

Relationally diplomatic.

You no longer want to explain your boundaries in a tone that makes others comfortable.

You are done being accessible by default.

And that can feel lonely.

This gathering is for women who feel themselves withdrawing from roles, expectations, and dynamics that once defined them.

Not collapsing.

Withdrawing.

Choosing.

We are not here to become softer.

We are here to examine what you are no longer willing to give.

What we will do

This is a structured, guided gathering. The focus is articulation.

We create a contained space where you can examine what you have quietly stepped away from, and what that means.

You will write in response to precise prompts.

You will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe, we promise!

You do not need to justify your distance.

You do not need to defend your detachment.

You do not need to present it as healing.

We look at withdrawal without pathologising it.

No fixing.

No advice.

No spiritual reframing.

Just women speaking from inside their own authority.

The focus of the evening

We explore aspects of Crone that are rarely spoken about directly:

• the relief of not being desired

• the decision to stop accommodating

• the grief of stepping out of certain roles

• the loneliness of becoming self-contained

• the power of emotional non-compliance

• the fear of becoming irrelevant

• the freedom of no longer performing warmth

This is not about reinvention.

It is about subtraction.

Many women feel themselves becoming sharper, quieter, less available.

This gathering offers a way to name that shift without apology.

The Motherhole

The Motherhole.
The first gate.
The original opening.

The Motherhole is the place where life arrives, where identity fractures, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others.
And then, one day, becomes yours again.

The Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters.
Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened, and what is happening now.

Not to be fixed.
Not to be guided.
Not to be improved.
But to be heard.

Each Motherhole gathering follows a shared method.

Not because one method fits all, but because experience needs holding in order to move.

We work with words, bodies, breath, and sound.
Sometimes with silence.
Sometimes with meditation.
Sometimes through writing.
Sometimes through reading and voicing.
Sometimes through movement or stillness.
Not everything happens every time.

But always a shared speaking at the end.

Nothing is forced.
You can speak.
You can stay quiet.
You can pass.
Listening counts.
The structure holds the room so experience can move, without being explained, fixed, or turned into a performance.

The Motherhole has three realms

Eros
The realm of desire.
Of appetite.
Of what still wants you.
Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal.
The pull toward life that never went quiet.
Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless.

Mother
The realm of cost.
Of responsibility.
Of what life required of you.
Birth. Care. Loss of self.
The moment you became a passage.
Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined.

Crone

The realm of ownership.
Of what you no longer give away.
No more passage for life.
No more explanation.
Menopause. Authority. Clarity.
The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself.

Practical details

• Time: Doors open at 17.30. Come early to land in the space, eat before we begin. Gathering starts at 18:00
• Length: 3 hours
• Group size: Maximum 12 participants
• Location: Sensual Institute, Tavastgatan 43, 118 24 Stockholm
• Price: 500 SEK
• Snacks and drinks included