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SUMMARY:Done being accessible by default
DESCRIPTION:The Motherhole hosts this gathering. \n\n\n\nIt has three realms: Eros\, Mother and Crone. \n\n\n\nThis is a Crone gathering. \n\n\n\nCrone is not age. \n\n\n\nIt is not invisibility. \n\n\n\nIt is not decline. \n\n\n\nCrone is the moment you stop negotiating your existence. \n\n\n\nWhen your body is no longer a passage for life into this world. \n\n\n\nCrone is ownership. \n\n\n\nTheme of the gathering\n\n\n\nThere comes a point when something in you closes. \n\n\n\nNot from bitterness. \n\n\n\nNot from trauma. \n\n\n\nFrom clarity. \n\n\n\nYou no longer want to be endlessly reachable. \n\n\n\nEmotionally accommodating. \n\n\n\nSexually adaptable. \n\n\n\nRelationally diplomatic. \n\n\n\nYou no longer want to explain your boundaries in a tone that makes others comfortable. \n\n\n\nYou are done being accessible by default. \n\n\n\nAnd that can feel lonely. \n\n\n\nThis gathering is for women who feel themselves withdrawing from roles\, expectations\, and dynamics that once defined them. \n\n\n\nNot collapsing. \n\n\n\nWithdrawing. \n\n\n\nChoosing. \n\n\n\nWe are not here to become softer. \n\n\n\nWe are here to examine what you are no longer willing to give. \n\n\n\nWhat we will do\n\n\n\nThis is a structured\, guided gathering. The focus is articulation. \n\n\n\nWe create a contained space where you can examine what you have quietly stepped away from\, and what that means. \n\n\n\nYou will write in response to precise prompts. \n\n\n\nYou will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts\, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works\, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe\, we promise! \n\n\n\nYou do not need to justify your distance. \n\n\n\nYou do not need to defend your detachment. \n\n\n\nYou do not need to present it as healing. \n\n\n\nWe look at withdrawal without pathologising it. \n\n\n\nNo fixing. \n\n\n\nNo advice. \n\n\n\nNo spiritual reframing. \n\n\n\nJust women speaking from inside their own authority. \n\n\n\nThe focus of the evening\n\n\n\nWe explore aspects of Crone that are rarely spoken about directly: \n\n\n\n• the relief of not being desired \n\n\n\n• the decision to stop accommodating \n\n\n\n• the grief of stepping out of certain roles \n\n\n\n• the loneliness of becoming self-contained \n\n\n\n• the power of emotional non-compliance \n\n\n\n• the fear of becoming irrelevant \n\n\n\n• the freedom of no longer performing warmth \n\n\n\nThis is not about reinvention. \n\n\n\nIt is about subtraction. \n\n\n\nMany women feel themselves becoming sharper\, quieter\, less available. \n\n\n\nThis gathering offers a way to name that shift without apology. \n\n\n\n \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole\n\n\n\nThe Motherhole.The first gate.The original opening. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole is the place where life arrives\, where identity fractures\, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others.And then\, one day\, becomes yours again. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters.Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened\, and what is happening now. \n\n\n\nNot to be fixed.Not to be guided.Not to be improved.But to be heard. \n\n\n\nEach Motherhole gathering follows a shared method. \n\n\n\nNot because one method fits all\, but because experience needs holding in order to move. \n\n\n\nWe work with words\, bodies\, breath\, and sound.Sometimes with silence.Sometimes with meditation.Sometimes through writing.Sometimes through reading and voicing.Sometimes through movement or stillness.Not everything happens every time. \n\n\n\nBut always a shared speaking at the end. \n\n\n\nNothing is forced.You can speak.You can stay quiet.You can pass.Listening counts.The structure holds the room so experience can move\, without being explained\, fixed\, or turned into a performance. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole has three realms\n\n\n\nErosThe realm of desire.Of appetite.Of what still wants you.Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal.The pull toward life that never went quiet.Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless. \n\n\n\nMotherThe realm of cost.Of responsibility.Of what life required of you.Birth. Care. Loss of self.The moment you became a passage.Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined. \n\n\n\nCrone \n\n\n\nThe realm of ownership.Of what you no longer give away.No more passage for life.No more explanation.Menopause. Authority. Clarity.The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself. \n\n\n\nRead more at themotherhole.com \n\n\n\nPractical details\n\n\n\n• Time: Doors open at 17.30. Come early to land in the space\, eat before we begin. Gathering starts at 18:00• Length: 3 hours• Group size: Maximum 12 participants• Location: Sensual Institute\, Tavastgatan 43\, 118 24 Stockholm• Price: 500 SEK• Snacks and drinks included \n\n\n\nSpace holder\n\n\n\nCamilla\, creator of the Sensual hero’s journey and author of the I Awake series Find out more at on her insta and her website i-awake.com \n\n\n\nMarie-Louise \n\n\n\nHelene \n\n\n\n \n\n\n\n•   Dress as you like\n•   Queer friendly\n•   Neurospicy friendly \n\n\n\nBooking & pricing\n\n\n\n• 500 SEK per participant \n\n\n\nif you feel called but cannot afford it right now pls reach out and we’ll figure something out!  \n\n\n\n \n\n\n\n• Bookings are non-refundable\, but transferable \n\n\n500\,00 kr\n					\n				Add to cart
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