Menopause is not a medical event. It’s a biological one. And in the modern western world, it’s also a kind of social exile.
Something is happening to you, and no one is explaining it properly. And certainly not in a way that gives you hope for the future…
Your body feels unfamiliar. Your tolerance is gone. Your patience is thinner.
Your emotions don’t move the way they used to. And beneath all of it is a quiet fear:
Am I losing something I won’t get back?
So many women are moving through menopause and feel disoriented, irritated, grieving, relieved, and scared all at once, and are tired of being told it’s either a medical problem or a spiritual awakening.
We start where you actually are.
We talk about:
This is not about staying young.
It’s about surviving the crossing and emerging from it whole, not decimated.
We name the fear.
We name the grief.
And we stay.
We work in a small, contained group with clear structure.
We move between:
You can pass.
You can cry.
You can be blank.
No one rushes you toward meaning.
The Motherhole holds space for women to speak from lived experience.
It holds three realms: Mother, Erotic, and Crone.
Not as identities to perform, but as realities that shape the body, desire, and sense of self over time.
The Motherhole is about what happens after life enters you.
After motherhood rearranges you. After desire changes.
After the cycle ends and something sharpens instead of fades.
Here, we don’t aim for healing, empowerment, or transformation. We aim for honesty.
We gather in small groups to talk, write, listen, and witness each other without fixing, analysing, or correcting.
Some speak. Some listen.
Both are participation.
The Motherhole is not therapy. It is not spirituality. It is not performance.
It is a place to say what is usually edited out, and to hear yourself clearly in the presence of others.
Read more at themotherhole.com
• 3 hours (including break)
• Max 12 participants
• Snacks and drinks included
• Location: Sensual Institute, Tavastgatan 43, 118 24 Stockholm
• Space holder: Camilla Wellton, creator of the Sensual Hero’s Journey and author of the I Awake series. Read more at i-awake.com
• Guest space holder: TBA
• Dress however you want
• Queer friendly
• Neurospicy friendly
• 500 SEK per participant, per session
• Bookings are non-refundable, but transferable
500,00 kr