September 4 @ 6:00 pm – 9:00 pm
The Motherhole has three realms: Eros, Mother and Crone.
This is an Eros gathering. Eros is not sex.
It’s the charge that lives underneath language.
The pull.
The no.
The yes that arrives before thought.
It’s sensation.
It’s appetite.
It’s the body remembering itself.
Theme of the gathering
Desire changes over time.
Not dramatically. Not visibly.
But enough that you start to notice you’re no longer responding the way you used to.
What once felt expansive may now feel selective.
What once wanted expression may now want containment.
What once moved outward may now turn inward.
This gathering is for women who recognise that shift and want to understand it, without forcing themselves back into an earlier version of desire.
Not to reignite something.
Not to fix anything.
But to listen carefully to what is actually there.
What we will do
This is a structured, guided gathering. The focus is articulation.
We are holding a shared space in which you will experience how your desire speaks when it is allowed to be honest, restrained, and unperformed.
You will write in response to precise prompts.
You will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe, we promise!
You do not need to prepare anything.
You do not need to be expressive.
You do not need to know what you think before you arrive.
The focus of the evening
We explore forms of desire that are rarely named:
• desire that no longer seeks validation
• desire that has become precise rather than abundant
• desire that withdraws instead of reaching
• desire that wants clarity more than stimulation
This is not about libido.
It is about orientation.
Many women sense that something in their erotic life has reorganised, but lack language for it. This gathering offers a way to slow down and name what has already shifted.
The Motherhole
The Motherhole.
The first gate.
The original opening.
The Motherhole is the place where life arrives, where identity fractures, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others.
And then, one day, becomes yours again.
The Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters.
Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened, and what is happening now.
Not to be fixed.
Not to be guided.
Not to be improved.
But to be heard.
Each Motherhole gathering follows a shared method.
Not because one method fits all, but because experience needs holding in order to move.
We work with words, bodies, breath, and sound.
Sometimes with silence.
Sometimes with meditation.
Sometimes through writing.
Sometimes through reading and voicing.
Sometimes through movement or stillness.
Not everything happens every time.
But always a shared speaking at the end.
Nothing is forced.
You can speak.
You can stay quiet.
You can pass.
Listening counts.
The structure holds the room so experience can move, without being explained, fixed, or turned into a performance.
The Motherhole has three realms
Eros
The realm of desire.
Of appetite.
Of what still wants you.
Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal.
The pull toward life that never went quiet.
Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless.
Mother
The realm of cost.
Of responsibility.
Of what life required of you.
Birth. Care. Loss of self.
The moment you became a passage.
Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined.
Crone
The realm of ownership.
Of what you no longer give away.
No more passage for life.
No more explanation.
Menopause. Authority. Clarity.
The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself.
Read more at themotherhole.com
Practical details
• Time: Doors open at 17.30. Come early to land in the space, eat before we begin. Gathering starts at 18:00
• Length: 3 hours
• Group size: Maximum 12 participants
• Location: Sensual Institute, Tavastgatan 43, 118 24 Stockholm
• Price: 500 SEK
• Snacks and drinks included
Space holder
Camilla Wellton, creator of the Sensual Hero’s Journey™ and author of the I AWAKE series
Find out more on her insta and her website i-awake.com
• Dress as you like • Queer friendly • Neurospicy friendly
Booking & pricing
• 500 SEK per participant
if you feel called but cannot afford it right now pls reach out and we’ll figure something out!
• Bookings are non-refundable, but transferable
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