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SUMMARY:Motherhood lives in the nervous system
DESCRIPTION:The Motherhole hosts this gathering. It has three realms: Eros\, Mother and Crone. \n\n\n\nThis is a Mother gathering. \n\n\n\nMother is not motherhood as an identity. \n\n\n\nIt is not a lifestyle. \n\n\n\nIt is not a soft aesthetic. \n\n\n\nMother is what happens when your body becomes a home for someone else. \n\n\n\nWhen your nervous system becomes a service provider. \n\n\n\nWhen your time stops belonging to you. \n\n\n\nMother is love\, yes. \n\n\n\nBut it is also depletion. \n\n\n\nRage. \n\n\n\nGrief. \n\n\n\nIsolation. \n\n\n\nAnd the quiet terror of never fully coming back. \n\n\n\nTheme of the gathering\n\n\n\nThere is a specific kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from doing too much. \n\n\n\nIt comes from being needed all the time. \n\n\n\nFrom carrying the logistics. \n\n\n\nThe emotional weather. \n\n\n\nThe planning. \n\n\n\nThe remembering. \n\n\n\nThe anticipating. \n\n\n\nFrom being the one who knows what everyone needs before they need it. \n\n\n\nFrom being the human calendar. \n\n\n\nThe human pillow. \n\n\n\nThe human emergency exit. \n\n\n\nAnd then being told you should be grateful. \n\n\n\nThis gathering is for women who love their children\, but feel themselves disappearing inside the role. \n\n\n\nFor women who are functioning\, but not living. \n\n\n\nFor women who are tired of being the infrastructure of everyone else’s life. \n\n\n\nWe don’t gather to become better mothers. \n\n\n\nWe gather to tell the truth. \n\n\n\nWhat we will do\n\n\n\nThis is a structured\, guided gathering. The focus is articulation. \n\n\n\nWe are holding a shared space where you can name what motherhood has actually demanded of you. \n\n\n\nNot the beautiful parts. \n\n\n\nNot the acceptable parts. \n\n\n\nThe real cost. \n\n\n\nYou will write in response to precise prompts. \n\n\n\nYou will reflect before speaking but you will not be speaking your thoughts\, you’ll be voicing those from another in the group. How? Come and find out! All you need to know is that it works\, it’s very liberating and feels extremely safe\, we promise! \n\n\n\nYou do not need to be positive. \n\n\n\nYou do not need to be “strong.” \n\n\n\nYou do not need to make it sound meaningful. \n\n\n\nYou are allowed to be honest without being judged. \n\n\n\nThe focus of the evening\n\n\n\nWe explore parts of motherhood that are rarely spoken about directly: \n\n\n\n• the exhaustion that sleep cannot fix \n\n\n\n• the invisible work no one counts \n\n\n\n• the resentment that comes from being taken for granted \n\n\n\n• the loss of erotic space and personal time \n\n\n\n• the emotional labour of holding everyone together \n\n\n\n• the grief of the woman you used to be \n\n\n\n• the fear that this is just your life now \n\n\n\nThis is not about parenting strategies. \n\n\n\nIt is about reality. \n\n\n\nMany women carry enormous pressure in silence because they don’t want to sound ungrateful. \n\n\n\nThis gathering offers a way to name what is true\, without collapsing into shame. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole\n\n\n\nThe Motherhole.The first gate.The original opening. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole is the place where life arrives\, where identity fractures\, where something that was once yours becomes a passage for others.And then\, one day\, becomes yours again. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole gatherings are not events. They are encounters.Spaces where women come to speak from inside what actually happened\, and what is happening now. \n\n\n\nNot to be fixed.Not to be guided.Not to be improved.But to be heard. \n\n\n\nEach Motherhole gathering follows a shared method. \n\n\n\nNot because one method fits all\, but because experience needs holding in order to move. \n\n\n\nWe work with words\, bodies\, breath\, and sound.Sometimes with silence.Sometimes with meditation.Sometimes through writing.Sometimes through reading and voicing.Sometimes through movement or stillness.Not everything happens every time. \n\n\n\nBut always a shared speaking at the end. \n\n\n\nNothing is forced.You can speak.You can stay quiet.You can pass.Listening counts.The structure holds the room so experience can move\, without being explained\, fixed\, or turned into a performance. \n\n\n\nThe Motherhole has three realms\n\n\n\nErosThe realm of desire.Of appetite.Of what still wants you.Sex. Rage. Hunger. Refusal.The pull toward life that never went quiet.Enter Eros if something in you is awake and restless. \n\n\n\nMotherThe realm of cost.Of responsibility.Of what life required of you.Birth. Care. Loss of self.The moment you became a passage.Enter Mother if your life split in two and never fully rejoined. \n\n\n\nCrone \n\n\n\nThe realm of ownership.Of what you no longer give away.No more passage for life.No more explanation.Menopause. Authority. Clarity.The moment you stop bleeding and start leading yourself. \n\n\n\nRead more at themotherhole.com \n\n\n\nPractical details\n\n\n\n• Date: Friday\, March 13• Time: Doors open at 17.30. Come early to land in the space\, eat before we begin. Gathering starts at 18:00• Length: 3 hours• Group size: Maximum 12 participants• Location: Sensual Institute\, Tavastgatan 43\, 118 24 Stockholm• Price: 500 SEK• Snacks and drinks included \n\n\n\nSpace holder\n\n\n\nCamilla Wellton\, creator of the Sensual Hero’s Journey™ and author of the I AWAKE series  \n\n\n\nFind out more on her insta and her website i-awake.com \n\n\n\n \n\n\n\n•   Dress as you like\n•   Queer friendly\n•   Neurospicy friendly \n\n\n\nBooking & pricing\n\n\n\n• 500 SEK per participant \n\n\n\nif you feel called but cannot afford it right now pls reach out and we’ll figure something out!  \n\n\n\n \n\n\n\n• Bookings are non-refundable\, but transferable \n\n\n500\,00 kr\n					\n				Add to cart
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